Key points
- Searching on your own shows you every licensed home, but the state's list does not show prices or openings.
- National referral websites are quick and cover wide areas. Your contact details may go to several communities.
- A local specialist may know homes firsthand and tour with you, but covers a small area.
- Most referral services are paid by the care home, so ask whether you are seeing every home that fits.
- Whichever route you take, read each home's state licensing record and visit in person.
Three ways to search for assisted living, side by side
No route is right for every family. The table gives the general shape of each. Individual websites and agents differ, so treat it as a list of things to ask about, not a verdict.
| Compare | On your own | National referral website | Local placement specialist |
|---|---|---|---|
| What you see | Every licensed home in the state's facility search | Usually the communities that take part in the site's network | Homes the specialist knows and works with in a small area |
| Cost to the family | Your time | Usually none; the home pays the service | Usually none; the home pays the agent. Some advisers bill hourly instead |
| Prices and openings | You call each home | Posted rates may not match what a home quotes after its assessment | The agent can often ask homes directly on your behalf |
| Your contact details | Stay with you | May be sent to several communities | Depends on the agent, so ask |
Searching for assisted living on your own
Everything you need to search alone is public. The Community Care Licensing Division of the California Department of Social Services keeps a facility search that lists every licensed assisted living community and board and care home, known in state law as residential care facilities for the elderly (RCFEs). The department's consumer guide says the site shows each home's license status, visits, complaints and licensing reports.
The guide suggests three steps: identify the person's needs and preferences, choose a sample of homes, then visit them. California Advocates for Nursing Home Reform (CANHR) adds two more sources. Ask people you know, such as friends, clergy, doctors and hospital discharge planners. And call the local Long-Term Care Ombudsman program, which cannot recommend a specific home but may have listings and public reports.
The strength of searching alone is that nobody filters the list. The weakness is what the list leaves out. It does not show monthly rates, whether a home has an opening, or whether it can care for a particular condition. You find that out one phone call at a time. A county the size of Los Angeles has a great many small homes, and families who are working, or who have a hospital discharge date coming, often run out of hours. Our guide on how to check an RCFE license explains how to read what you find.
How national referral websites generally work
A national referral website usually starts with an online form or a phone number. You give your contact details and a few facts about the person who needs care. An adviser then calls, asks more questions and sends a list of communities. The service is usually free to the family because the community pays the website when someone moves in.
This model has real advantages. It is fast, it works when you live in another state from your parent, and it covers areas where no local agent works.
It also has limits. None of them makes a website a bad choice. They mean the list you receive is a starting point, and the checking is still yours to do:
- The list may not be complete. The California Department of Aging says referral agencies may only be referring you to facilities that pay them.
- Your details may travel. Some services pass your name and phone number to several communities at once, and each may call you. Ask who will receive your details before you give them.
- Posted prices may be off. CANHR notes that monthly rates on an agency's website may be inaccurate, because a home sets its rate only after assessing the person.
- The adviser may not have been inside. CANHR also cautions that agencies often rely on a home's marketing materials. Ask whether anyone from the service has visited.
Working with a local placement specialist
A local placement agent does the same job on a smaller map. The agent usually talks with you directly, suggests a short list of nearby homes, and may go on the tours with you. Because the agent works one area, they may know things a listing cannot show: which small homes take residents who need two people to help them move, how an owner handled a past citation, where there is an opening this week.
The trade-offs are just as real. A local agent covers only so much ground, so a family searching across several counties may need more than one. Skill and training vary widely from one agent to the next, and California does not license RCFE placement agencies, as our guide to what a senior placement agency is explains. And a local agent is usually paid by the home, the same as a website. CANHR's advice applies to every referral service: do not rely on a referral alone, and research the home yourself.
The differences between agents are large enough that choosing one deserves a few questions. See how to choose a placement agency.
Which way of searching fits your situation?
You can combine the three. Many families use the state search to check the homes an agent suggests, or ask an agent about a home they found themselves. Whatever the route, one rule in state law is worth knowing: Health and Safety Code section 1569.47 bars any placement agency from referring a person to a care home that is not licensed. If you come across a home that seems to be operating without a license, or you see someone in danger, call 911 in an emergency and report the home to the Community Care Licensing Division at 1-844-538-8766.
Before you decide on any home, visit more than once. Our assisted living tour checklist lists what to look at and ask.
As a rough guide, based on what each route does well:
- Searching alone fits when you have several weeks, know the neighborhood you want and are comfortable making many calls.
- A national website fits when you are far away, need options in an unfamiliar area, and do not mind sorting through follow-up calls.
- A local specialist fits when time is short, the care needs are complicated, or you want someone beside you on the tours.
How Hamssa can help
Hamssa Benrekia is a local placement specialist based in Torrance who works alone, so the person you call is the person who tours with you. She helps families with assisted living placement in the South Bay and Harbor area of Los Angeles County, not the whole state. Her help is free for families: the care home pays her a referral fee after a move-in, not every home pays one, and she still recommends a home that pays nothing when it is the right fit, as Is senior placement free? explains. To talk it over, contact Hamssa, or read the full California Assisted Living Placement Guide.
Common questions
Is it better to use a placement agency or find assisted living myself?
It depends on your time and the care needs involved. Searching yourself keeps every licensed home in view but takes many calls and visits. A placement agency can shorten the search, though most are paid by the homes they refer to, so the list may be narrower. Many families do both: they take an agent's short list and check each home on the state's facility search.
Do national referral websites share my phone number with care homes?
Some do, and practices differ from one service to the next. A referral service is paid when a person it referred moves in, so a community generally has to know who referred you. Before you fill in a form or give details by phone, ask who will receive your contact information, how many communities are likely to call you, and whether you can limit that to homes you choose.
Can I find a board and care home without an agency?
Yes. Small board and care homes are licensed as RCFEs and appear in the Community Care Licensing Division's public facility search, which you can filter by city, zip code or county. The search does not show prices or openings, so you will need to call each home. Friends, doctors and hospital discharge planners can also suggest homes they know.
Does using a placement agency make assisted living cost more?
Ask the home directly. We found no California rule that sets what a home may pay a referral service or how it accounts for that cost. A reasonable question for any home is whether its rate is the same for a resident who arrives through an agency as for one who walks in. Get the rate and all fees in writing before you sign.
Sources
Official pages this page relies on. Rules and programs change, so check the source for the current version.
- California Advocates for Nursing Home Reform (CANHR): Searching for a Residential Care Facility for the Elderly (RCFE)
- California Advocates for Nursing Home Reform (CANHR): Assisted living placement agencies assist free of charge, but there may be a catch
- California Department of Aging: Assisted Living Facilities
- California Department of Social Services: Choosing a Residential Care Facility for Seniors in California, A Guide for Consumers
- California Legislative Information: Health and Safety Code section 1569.47 (placement agencies and residential care facilities for the elderly)
- California Department of Social Services: CCLD Complaint Hotline
This guide is general information, not medical, legal or financial advice. Program rules and costs change; confirm details with the agency named in the sources.